With the article’s
title, you might first think about being a bottom in a homosexual intercourse.
But I have to apologize for this article is totally different from what you are
expecting to read. And bet that you no longer need to know on how to be a good
bottom, Come on! You just need a huge tight ass for that. And for your own
knowledge, being a bottom is not just a sexual idea, there is a very good
psychological explanation on how to be a good bottom in a homosexual relationship.
If
you are the bottom in your relationship, you are probably the one who is always
dependent on your boyfriend. Bottom people are the passive ones in a relationship;
they’re not usually the decision maker and most of the time they will just say
yes on whatever their partners are saying. To make the cliché short, they are the “girl” in an intimate
partnership. So if you want to have a perfect love life, here are the things
you need to remember on how to be a good bottom:
1. SUPPORT
Most bottoms are
YES PEOPLE, but hello! Do you think your partner needs a robot? hell no. Some
people say that by saying “Yes” you are supporting an idea, big NO! this is
just a weird misconception. Here’s the thing:
SUPPORT = EFFORT
Bet you have
noticed the sameness of the equation, Yes I know that their last 3 letters are
the same. Anyway, whenever you support your partner, do not just show it, let
him feel it.
2. INDEPENDENCE
DAY
As said, most
bottoms are very dependent to their partners and some tops can tolerate such
idea. Sadly, there are times that tops need to rest too and depend on their
partner especially during crisis such as which one should be used? Tampons or
napkin? NO JUST KIDDIN! Going back, Yes sometimes top people complain about
their bottom partners for being too dependent and mostly it is the reason for
break-ups. As much as possible be independent in special circumstances and BE
THE GAY A GUY NEEDS. Please just SOMETIMES! not all the time that your partner
will feel that you’re suppressing him, Coz’ tops don’t like being suppressed.
3. THE
MUMMY
No! It has
nothing to do about mummification. Just be the mommy, Yes we all know that tops
should take care the bottoms but always remember that love is a give and take
process. So if your guy is taking good care of you, you should also give back
what has given. Tops gets more stress than bottoms so they need a very caring
partner who sometimes acts as their mommy if their biological mommy or nanny is
absent. A simple breakfast in bed and wiping the sweat with a towel will do.
Yes, sounds so NANNY-ish, but just think that you love the person and therefore
you need to do everything to keep the relationship strong.
4. EL
MACHO
And no, this has
nothing to do with the body but the masculinity. Tops like bottoms because most
bottoms are feminine. But here is the thing; tops don’t like too much
femininity, they need someone whom they can really get along with – those who
are a bit daring. Imagine, if your boyfriend goes rock climbing, and you can’t
go with him because it is not your thing, Do you think your partner will enjoy
the climbing? Probably if he’s with his friends or he’s with THE OTHER GUY, And yes we don’t want that to happen. And c’mon,
you’re not a girl! Even women play sports dominated by men! So please take some
dose of testosterone!
5. BUTTER
They say that
most bottoms are very appreciative, very sweet and loves expressing good words
to the point that they may sound so CHEEZY. And we all know that tops are the
opposite, well most guys are not cheezy and tops are “Guy-likes”. This is very
simple, minimize the cheeziness and instead just spread butter on the sandwich.
For example:
instead
of saying “you’re my super hero! i love
you so much mwah mwah”
why
not just say “I couldn’t have done it without
you help” or “thank you, such a great help”
see? It will still
make him feel good! He will just react naturally instead of giving you awkward
facial expressions for saying cheezy statements which are MOST OF THE TIME
disgusting.
Being
a bottom does not mean that you need to be the girl in the relationship. Remember
that some heterosexual relationships are dominated by girls. And most of these
girls are striving to fight people’s clichés about women. Love is a
companionship, not a solo work, therefore, you also have to give a share as a
loyal partner to keep things balanced.
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